Mmmmmoss
August 8, 2025 at 11:00:15 PM
I don't understand questioning if a ban list is needed and saying ppl feel uncomfortable at goth night in the same breath, forgive me if i missed the point. Many other measures I take on safety, not just bans, which are bare-minimum commonplaces for every bar, venue and business. There is no room for harassment at my shows. Period. If your friends who felt bad at my events have any advice on where I can improve lmk, there is always room to grow!
Not gonna argue more after this about ellison's possible attendance, dumb hill to die on. He could have got thru bouncers it's not impossible, but are you possibly thinking of one of the many events, like freq fest, where I was hired as a stage hand? Seen him around a lot of non-diy events I was hired for.
Duhhh I'm gonna check in with shi and not ellison? I have never known ellison personally. Not my say on who's a "monster" or "eligible to change" -- is it yours?
I believe it is in our human nature to be good, though, and I try to be good while pointing those around me in the same direction. Not a secret that we hung out a couple times, public ab it online and irl. Me holding him accountable via contact does not affect my shows either, he's not attending.
Lastly, I have three total close friends who are kind, honest, a lil weird, and do not fit that description. Do i have other friends I hang around at shows but don't know everything about them? Sure. Do I have a tonnn of acquaintances, many of whom I dislike but am kind to anyways? Ohhhhhhh yeah. Like in my first post, you don't know me<3 if you don't like what I do, continue not going to my events. Got a consistent enough crowd to help pay the travelings bands & that's all I need. Thanks!